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		<title>My my my&#8230;Has it been THAT long?!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Oct 2008 01:40:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mike</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[So it&#8217;s been at least a month since I last wrote something on here, probably more. There has been so much that has happened in that amount of time, and if I don&#8217;t get some of it written, I will forget it all forever, and you all will have no clue what is going on [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So it&#8217;s been at least a month since I last wrote something on here, probably more. There has been so much that has happened in that amount of time, and if I don&#8217;t get some of it written, I will forget it all forever, and you all will have no clue what is going on in. The sun will fall from the sky, clowns will cease to be funny, BYU will start losing football games, and from there it&#8217;s all downhill until the end of the world. So here&#8217;s a brief rundown of major events since my last post.</p>
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<p>When I last wrote, gas prices were killing our <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/budget" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with budget">budget</a>. Now the cost to fill the car is going down, but there have been lovely car repairs to keep us feeling desperate.</p>
<p>Another big change that came through &#8211; I have been called as the new Ward Mission Leader. I had an inkling this was coming, but didn&#8217;t want to say anything in case Murphy was listening. I guess he has ESP, &#8217;cause I was called anyway.</p>
<p>Actually, I am really excited about the calling.</p>
<p>Another huge event was when <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/johanna" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with Johanna">Johanna</a> and I spent every weekend in September painting the downstairs room which is now OFFICIALLY FINISHED!!! It&#8217;s a project that has been over a year in the works, and it is soooooooo good to have it done! It looks great. See for yourself!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/dscf3214.jpg" title="dscf3214.jpg" rel="shadowbox[post-80];player=img;"><img class="alignnone size-thumbnail wp-image-375" title="dscf3214.jpg" src="http://www.dodgefam.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/dscf3214-150x150.jpg" alt="dscf3214.jpg" width="150" height="150" /></a><a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/dscf3208.jpg" title="dscf3208.jpg" rel="shadowbox[post-80];player=img;"><img class="alignnone size-thumbnail wp-image-371" title="dscf3208.jpg" src="http://www.dodgefam.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/dscf3208-150x150.jpg" alt="dscf3208.jpg" width="150" height="150" /></a><a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/dscf3209.jpg" title="dscf3209.jpg" rel="shadowbox[post-80];player=img;"><img class="alignnone size-thumbnail wp-image-372" title="dscf3209.jpg" src="http://www.dodgefam.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/dscf3209-150x150.jpg" alt="dscf3209.jpg" width="150" height="150" /></a><a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/dscf3210.jpg" title="dscf3210.jpg" rel="shadowbox[post-80];player=img;"><img class="alignnone size-thumbnail wp-image-373" title="dscf3210.jpg" src="http://www.dodgefam.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/dscf3210-150x150.jpg" alt="dscf3210.jpg" width="150" height="150" /></a><a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/dscf3211.jpg" title="dscf3211.jpg" rel="shadowbox[post-80];player=img;"><img class="alignnone size-thumbnail wp-image-374" title="dscf3211.jpg" src="http://www.dodgefam.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/dscf3211-150x150.jpg" alt="dscf3211.jpg" width="150" height="150" /></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/aiden" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with Aiden">Aiden</a> is doing very well in <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/school" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with school">school</a>. When he can focus on his <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/work" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with work">work</a>, he consistently does very well on math, and is getting better at wring. But his mind wanders so frequently, we have to do his homework in 5 minute segments, or else nothing happens.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/james" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with James">James</a> is pretty much potty trained. He still has accidents when we don&#8217;t invite him to use the potty, so I guess we&#8217;re 90% there, he just needs to get the &#8216;do it myself&#8217; part down.</p>
<p>And finally, just this past weekend <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/johanna" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with Johanna">Johanna</a> and I officially enlisted the help of a lawyer so that I can adopt <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/aiden" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with Aiden">Aiden</a> and <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/james" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with James">James</a>. In June/July of this year, their biological father mentioned that if I wanted to formally adopt them, he would not be opposed &#8211; it would be better for the kids. We had to wait for a while because some legal requirement states that the kids would have to be living with me for 6 months before we could get started. Now that we have a lawyer, we will start getting things <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/moving" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with moving">moving</a> forward.</p>
<p>And so, life moves on and is generally pretty good to us. On Monday we will go to the Pumpkin Patch (one of our new favorite traditions) and choose pumpkins to carve. It is sure to be a blast, and will be well documented with more <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/pictures" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with pictures">pictures</a> to upload. Now, if I can just remember to keep this blog up to date&#8230;</p>
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		<title>It&#8217;s been a walk in the park&#8230;if that park is located in HELL&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Aug 2008 13:21:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mike</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[So this past week has been a really tough one for me at work. Not because I was hating work, but because there was so MUCH work and so LITTLE time to do it all. In some twisted little way, I still had a good time with it all, but I am a little worn [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So this past week has been a really tough one for me at <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/work" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with work">work</a>. Not because I was hating <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/work" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with work">work</a>, but because there was so MUCH <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/work" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with work">work</a> and so LITTLE time to do it all. <span id="more-54"></span>In some twisted little way, I still had a good time with it all, but I am a little worn out on this current client, and hope for a bit of a <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/change-of-pace" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with change of pace">change of pace</a> this week.</p>
<p>In other news, this Thursday, <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/johanna" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with Johanna">Johanna</a> and find out whether the bun we are baking is a little boy or a little girl! Needless to say, everyone is pretty excited around here. Not to jinx things, but we are both hoping for a little girl, and the chinese fortune cookies from lunch last week say &#8220;You will get your hearts&#8217; desire&#8221; &#8211; that&#8217;s gotta count for something, right?</p>
<p>Missionary Mary has sent us some <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/pictures" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with pictures">pictures</a>, which will make their way into the appropriate gallery in a few minutes here. She seems to be doing well, as always, but the email this week was a little scattered. She wrote a huge, detailed one, and it got deleted before she could send it, so the remaining time was spent trying to patch together thoughts. She did ask me about posting video on the site&#8230;I will have to write her and ask her to just send them to me. I will need to downsize them before posting them &#8211; full resolution video might be too much for my internet connection to serve up right now.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/aiden" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with Aiden">Aiden</a>&#8217;s first week of <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/school" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with school">school</a> is going well, for the most part. He has been disciplined once already, moved from the front row to the second row because he can&#8217;t stop talking to his neighbor. The teacher put him next to a girl, hoping that might quiet him a little. She doesn&#8217;t know that all his best friends in the ward are girls. This could be interesting.</p>
<p>Lastly, <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/johanna" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with Johanna">Johanna</a> is about to delve into the world of scouting, as this week she starts her new calling as the Cub Scout leader in our ward! I think she is excited, but probably not as much as I am. I loved scouting as a kid, and am looking forward to helping out where I can. I know that Sarah has a wealth of knowledge on how to do the scouting stuff, as she is her wards&#8217; Primary President and all. We&#8217;ll have to touch base some time and get some killer-awesome hints on how to keep little boys entertained with rocks and sticks without throwing them at each other.</p>
<p>Anywho, this is getting sorta lengthy, so I will go post the Mary <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/pictures" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with pictures">pictures</a> now. TTFN!</p>
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		<title>The kids are watching&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jul 2008 21:15:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mike</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The past couple of days, I have noticed that the kids are mimicking me&#8230;and depending on who you ask, it&#8217;s either really cute, or it&#8217;s justice and I deserve every bit of it. Lemme &#8216;splain. It started out with the post Johanna made about James&#8217; pronouncement that Aiden needed to &#8220;fix his attitude.&#8221; That was [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The past couple of days, I have noticed that the kids are mimicking me&#8230;and depending on who you ask, it&#8217;s either really cute, or it&#8217;s justice and I deserve every bit of it. Lemme &#8216;splain.</p>
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<p>It started out with the post <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/johanna" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with Johanna">Johanna</a> made about <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/james" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with James">James</a>&#8217; pronouncement that <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/aiden" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with Aiden">Aiden</a> needed to &#8220;fix his attitude.&#8221; That was really cute, I will admit it. A phrase like that is almost too big for him, but I say it so often to both of the kids it was sure to come up sooner or later. That one was alright.</p>
<p>Just a day later, I got a call at <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/work" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with work">work</a>, and was told that <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/aiden" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with Aiden">Aiden</a> had built a computer! It consisted of a large overturned clothes bucket, a pillow for the monitor, a Lego keyboard, and a toy stethoscope as a power cable. He was very excited to show me the <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/mythbusters" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with mythbusters">Mythbusters</a> game that you could play on it, but wanted me to hurry home because it was broken, and it was up to me to fix the problem. I will upload a picture of the computer later tonight, but needless to say we had a bit of fun that evening, and he continues to move his computer from room to room so he can play with it whenever he gets tired of his little brother.</p>
<p>Another time I was struggling to get out of bed in the morning, because I could hear the kids in the hallway and figured I needed to get the day started. For the past couple of weeks, I have been on a mission to get <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/james" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with James">James</a> to stop sucking his fingers (it&#8217;s not exactly the nicest thing when he grabs your arm and his hand is dripping with drool!) That morning, the first thing I could actually make out was <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/aiden" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with Aiden">Aiden</a> saying &#8220;<a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/james" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with James">James</a>, no fingers! Never, ever put your fingers in your mouth again!&#8221; <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/johanna" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with Johanna">Johanna</a> told me that telling a child &#8220;never&#8221; was <em>never</em> a good idea. I didn&#8217;t quite know what to make of this, it was borderline cute&#8230;but I don&#8217;t want <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/aiden" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with Aiden">Aiden</a> starting to think he can be policeman.</p>
<p>The most recent, though, came when we were getting ready to go to Game Night at my uncle Vic&#8217;s <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/house" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with house">house</a>. We were in a rush to get out the door, and what do you know, <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/aiden" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with Aiden">Aiden</a> couldn&#8217;t find his shoes. Or maybe it was <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/james" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with James">James</a> wanting one last drink of water. I honestly can&#8217;t remember, but I was a little put out about it and accused someone of something, only to be proven wrong seconds after I had said it. Immediately, <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/johanna" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with Johanna">Johanna</a> told <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/aiden" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with Aiden">Aiden</a> and <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/james" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with James">James</a> &#8220;Ignore Daddy right now, he needs to <em>fix his attitude</em>.&#8221;</p>
<p>I guess I have a long way to go before I get my bearings in this parenting thing.</p>
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		<title>She&#8217;s not Lion!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 May 2008 14:51:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mike</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[935 It seems that my sister has been having a really neat-o time on her mission&#8230;as you can plainly see. A brief description follows. Oh, this week I pet a Lion. Sis Ras and I live on a street with a new hotel. It is &#8220;The Lion Garden Hotel&#8221; It was having its grand opening [...]]]></description>
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<p>It seems that my sister has been having a really neat-o time on her mission&#8230;as you can plainly see. A brief description follows.</p>
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<blockquote><p>Oh, this week I pet a Lion. Sis Ras and I live on a street with a new hotel. It is &#8220;The Lion Garden Hotel&#8221;<br />
It was having its grand opening and they had a lion there. Sister Ras and I turned the corner as usual to go home and she jumped and said LOOK A LION&#8230;. its not on a leash!!<br />
it was rather funny. Anyway, there was a man there that let us pet it. So there you have it. I pet a Lion in Hungary. Right on our own street too. Who knows what exciting things await is this next week.</p></blockquote>
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		<title>Plastic Surgery</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Mar 2008 08:43:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mike</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last night, Johanna and I went &#8220;under the knife&#8221; so to speak. Earlier this year I lost close to 40 lbs on a diet she helped me with (which I will be going on again soon ). Last night, we both decided that we need to lose a little bit more. So the gloves came [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Last night, <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/johanna" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with Johanna">Johanna</a> and I went &#8220;under the knife&#8221; so to speak. Earlier this year I lost close to 40 lbs on a diet she helped me with (which I will be going on again soon <img src='http://www.dodgefam.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />  ). Last night, we both decided that we need to lose a little bit more. So the gloves came off, we picked up the cutlery&#8230;and our debit card is no more. The &#8220;get out of <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/debt" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with debt">debt</a>&#8221; plan has begun.</p>
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<p>Yes, in today&#8217;s world it might seem drastic, but it is possible to live  without any form of credit card at all. I cut up my regular visa a couple of  months ago, and it has been alright. But we can do more. With my new <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/job" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with job">job</a>, I am  waiting to see what my take home pay is after insurance is taken out. But if it  is anything close to what I hope it is, our <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/budget" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with budget">budget</a> will allow us to be  completely <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/debt" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with debt">debt</a> free (except the <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/house" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with house">house</a>) fairly soon. When I did the math in  January, we calculated 2 years to be <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/debt" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with debt">debt</a> free. It might take a little longer  than that, but in the grand scheme of things, it still isn&#8217;t bad.</p>
<p>What does all this have to do with you? Well, more than you would think,  actually. One of the reasons people find it so hard to get out of <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/debt" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with debt">debt</a> is that  they want to spend time with their friends doing fun stuff. Fun stuff usually  costs money. And they don&#8217;t have any money. So they &#8220;borrow&#8221; just a little, just  this once&#8230;and the cycle starts again. We don&#8217;t want to get into that habit  again.</p>
<p>As we begin the process of eliminating <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/debt" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with debt">debt</a> (<em>blasted student  loans!</em>), we will likely decline to participate in any activities that are  not in our <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/budget" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with budget">budget</a>. As of right now, that is pretty much everything. As we get  our <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/debt" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with debt">debt</a> under control, we can start to make small allowances for other  activities. Please be understanding and cooperative if you have a show or a  sporting event you want to go to, as we will likely not be able to attend for a  while&#8230;unless admission is <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/free-ninety-five" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with free-ninety-five">free-ninety-five</a>.</p>
<p>Why cut up the card, though? What will that do? Well, it helps in the  discipline, keeps us on track. We will pay all of our utility bills online, and  we will withdraw <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/cash" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with cash">cash</a> for groceries, household goods, and childcare expenses. We  have actual envelopes that will hold all of our funds for the month, and if an  envelope runs out&#8230;there is no &#8220;borrowing&#8221; from another one. We can evaluate  how much is in each envelope at the end of the month, and if some categories are  short and others are alright, we can shuffle the money around.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s to getting <a href="http://www.dodgefam.com/archives/tag/debt" class="st_tag internal_tag" rel="tag" title="Posts tagged with debt">debt</a> free! <em><strong>WOOHOO!!!</strong></em></div>
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